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Give me a yes face

I just got home from performing in an improv show in downtown Denver.  It was a blast.  New place, new friends, new only-told-one-time stories being written in the moment.  In 2005, I studied improv at the SAK Comedy Lab in Orlando.  It was a pivotal year.  I learned a lot about myself and life.

The first basic rule of improv is “Yes, and…”  I first learned this from Beth Bacall when we worked in radio together in New Jersey.  She mentioned it in passing and my mind’s curiosity held tightly to the idea.  Years later, when I was yearning to grow and learn and expand, I found classes in Orlando where I spent a year soaking up the art of improv.

“Yes, and…”  

When an idea is presented to you on stage, you accept it.  You either say “yes” literally, or you say “yes” by accepting the offer, “and” then adding to it. 

“Our mailbox is on fire!” “Yes, and I came in to see if we have any marshmallows.”  🙂

Otherwise you block the idea with your words or actions.  Blocking makes it painfully difficult to tell a story together.

“Our mailbox is on fire!” “No it’s not. You’re nuts. I’m leaving.”

It takes SO MUCH TIME to re-train your brain to say “yes” in these classes.  The inclination is to block.

Slowly, I became aware of how I blocked lots of things, lot of ideas, and lots of people – and I’m not talking about on stage.  It pained me to see how much I had been blocking life by rolling my eyes, by saying something sarcastic, by bickering, by shooting down ideas, by clamming up…

I was a master blocker.

God used improv lessons to change my life.  I learned to say: yes, and… 

“Whatever God has promised gets stamped with the Yes of Jesus.  In him, this is what we preach and pray, the great Amen, God’s Yes and our Yes together, gloriously evident.  God affirms us, making us a sure thing in Christ, putting his Yes within us.” – 2 Corinthians 1:20-22 The Message Bible

“Yes, and” was just the first step in my improv journey.  I grew staggeringly stronger spiritually in 2005. The lessons that followed “yes, and…” were equally as powerful and impactful.  I’ll find time to write more soon.

God, help me say yes. 

Give me a yes heart. 

Give me a yes face.

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Comments

  1. Brynn says

    December 9, 2011 at 3:03 pm

    this is a good perspective! Thanks!
    Also my little Allison is sitting here with me and she asked who those people were in your family picture (over to the left). When I told her your names and that you all go to our church she said "There's a Jesse in my class!" As I've been typing this she asked, "Does Jesse know me?" Fun that they're making new friends and new connections. 🙂

  2. Brynn says

    December 9, 2011 at 3:06 pm

    oops I meant over to the RIGHT! apparently it's a little to early for right and left, and very hard to reply to a blog with an active 3 year old in you lap! 😉

  3. Lisa says

    December 9, 2011 at 7:06 pm

    Hey Brynn:) Thanks for reading me:) We'll see you Sunday!!

  4. Chuck Petersen says

    December 9, 2011 at 9:20 pm

    Lisa, great post/blog. It seems I just read about "yes and" from Jason Gray when he wrote about Marc Martel and people's reaction to his auditioning for the Queen tour.

    When 2 very special people talk about "yes and" maybe I need to stop and really examine my own life to make sure I always have a "yes face".

  5. Jason Gray says

    December 10, 2011 at 10:45 pm

    Ryan Springer told me to check this out. You got me! Right to the heart of it, thank you so much…

  6. Bill in Clay NY says

    December 14, 2011 at 4:20 pm

    Thanks Lisa – Great perspective!

Hey, I'm glad you're here! I hope that through radio, a podcast, or face to face at an event, we can remind each other that His love is better than life. xo

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